Jeanette Becker

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Jeanette R. Becker, nee Merod, 95, of Belleville, IL, born February 23, 1928, in Belleville, IL, died Thursday, September 7, 2023, at Cedar Creek of Shiloh, Shiloh, IL.

Jeanette was a homemaker and a member of St. Peter’s Cathedral. She was also a member of the Cathedral Quilters for 33 years and a member of the Smithton American Legion Auxiliary, GEM Unit 937 since 1949. She was a past member of the St. Clair County Genealogical Society and Our Lady of Perpetual Help Sodality.

Above all, Jeanette was the loving force in our family. She took her role as mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother to heart, striving to keep us united and expressing to us how important family was. Her friends were also a central part of her life. She always made sure to stay in touch with greeting cards, phone calls, visits and, of course, providing rides for her friends to numerous outings.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Melvin J. Becker, whom she married on May 10, 1949, and who died on April 22, 2012; her parents, Oscar and Amelia, nee Schneider, Merod; her stepmother, Mildred Merod; a brother, Kenneth Merod; a stepbrother, Dennis Rohn; six brothers-in-law, Kenneth Becker, Harold Becker, Virgil Becker, Charles Mulkey, C.A Schuchmann, Tommy Sneed; and three sisters-in-law, Sharon Mulkey, Jolene Becker, and Betty Becker.

Jeanette is survived by five children, Bruce (Pamela) Becker of Fairview Heights, IL, Mark (Linda) Becker of O’Fallon, MO, Mary Schaefer of Belleville, IL, Dale (Catherine) Becker of Springfield, IL, and Karen Becker (Judy Pecina) of Shiloh, IL.

Also surviving are 14 grandchildren, Landra (Jeffrey) Reed, Tammi (Phillip) Bottcher, Amy (Jeffrey) Rau, Nicholaus (Jessica) Becker, Andrew (Heather) Becker, Stewart Coil, Todd (Kyra) Schaefer, Kyle (Shaundra) Schaefer, Robin Schaefer (Ross Klucker), Sarah (Samuel) Sevener, Emily (Paul) Kabbes, Christine (Andrew) Novaria, and Connor and Aidan Becker-Pecina.

Jeanette is also survived by 24 great-grandchildren, Bradley Reed, Logan and Garrett Bottcher, Christian Rau, Brandon Becker, Madelynn Frawley, Aiyanna and Aniza Delgadillo, Amani Becker, Baylie Barba, Waylon Becker, Isaac Wilson, Abbey and Andrew Schaefer, Tyler Schaefer and Daniel Nolen, Alayna, Adam, Amelia and Archer Sevener, Bennett and Mackenzie Kabbes, Hannah and Sydney Novaria.

She is also survived by three sisters-in-law, Judy Merod, Dora Becker, and Carol Sneed; a stepsister, Betty Schuchmann; many nieces and nephews, and good friends, especially Marcy Orsa and Joyce Pecina.

The Becker family would like to extend a special thank you to Hospice of Southern Illinois for their kindness and support and also to the loving staff at Cedar Creek of Shiloh.

Memorials may be made to the Notre Dame Academy, Belleville, IL. Condolences may be expressed to the family online at www.rennerfh.com.

Visitation:  Friends may visit from 4 to 8 p.m. Monday, September 11, 2023, at George Renner & Sons Funeral Home, Belleville, IL, and from 9 to 10 a.m. Tuesday, September 12, 2023, at St. Peter’s Cathedral Catholic Church, Belleville, IL. The American Legion Ladies Auxiliary Post 937 will hold a brief ritual at 6:30 p.m. Monday at the funeral home.

Funeral:  A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday, September 12, 2023, at St. Peter’s Cathedral Catholic Church, Belleville, IL, with Fr. Godfrey Mullen and Msgr. James Buerster concelebrating.

Burial will be at Green Mount Catholic Cemetery, Belleville, IL.

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16 Comments on Jeanette Becker

Karen Jackson said : Guest Report Sep 14, 2023 at 7:20 AM

I just read of your Moms passing. She was the sweetest! She sent us birthday cards every year when we were kids and I think of that often. She was such a kind and friendly heart. My deepest sympathies to all of you.

  • Grafton
  • Il
Rena Murphy said : Guest Report Sep 12, 2023 at 9:52 PM

Dear Mary, I’m so sorry to hear. Of your loss of your Mom, I know from all the stories you told me that she was a wonderful mother and an inspiration to all your family. I hope you’ll find comfort in remembering the gentle care you took of her in her last days.

  • Belleville
  • Il
Rena murphy said : Guest Report Sep 12, 2023 at 9:45 PM

Dear Mary, So sorry for the your loss of your Mom. I hope you’ll find comfort in remembering how much peace and comfort you and your family brought to her in the final days of her well-lived life.

  • Swansea
  • Il
Rita Uhl said : Guest Report Sep 12, 2023 at 10:04 AM

Mary and all Becker family My deepest condolences on the loss of your dearest mother. Though I didn’t know her personally, I always followed her adventures through Mary’s FB. She was such a joyful person. Always a smile in her pictures. May she rest in peace and rise in glory! Rita Schanherr Uhl

  • Fairview Heights
  • IL
Diane Crawford said : Guest Report Sep 11, 2023 at 5:14 PM

My deepest sympathies to Jeanette's family. She was a very sweet woman who always had a smile on her face.

  • New Baden
  • Illinois
Susan Wiegers said : Guest Report Sep 11, 2023 at 4:30 PM

So sorry to hear of Jeanette’s passing, she was an excellent quilter and always helpful when I happened to need a baby quilt for a special occasion. May she RIP.

  • Belleville
  • IL
Susan Sitko said : Guest Report Sep 10, 2023 at 1:15 PM

Steve and I are so sorry for your loss. We always loved our conversations when she came to Springfield. Deepest sympathies to all of you.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • Springfield
  • IL
Mark Forcade said : Guest Report Sep 10, 2023 at 12:45 PM

I was very sorry to hear of Jennette’s passing. She always would say hello when ever she saw me. Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please except my sympathy. Sincerely, Mark Forcade

  • Smithton
  • Il
Donna Laporte said : Guest Report Sep 10, 2023 at 10:20 AM

So very sorry to Mary and her family for your loss. Jeanette was a good friend of my mom and fellow bunco player, it was always a delight to see her smiling face.

  • Smithton
  • Il
Ann Wachtel said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 7:12 PM

I’m sorry for your loss, your mom always had a smile when I saw her at Mass. We can be sure, however, that my mom, Marcie Bedell, and the other quilters have welcomed her and they have started quilting together. They always had such a good time together.

  • Belleville
  • IL
Debi Harbison Boeving said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 6:41 PM

Was so sad to hear about Jeanette passing. She held a very special place in my heart. She always had a smile on her face. She will be greatly missed by her entire family.

  • Smithton
  • IL
Tena Becker said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 5:43 PM

Very sorry for your loss. My condolences.

  • St Peters
  • MO
Dee Porter said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 4:38 PM

So sorry Bruce and Pam, for your loss of your mother. Losing your parent is a great grief. God bless you and all your family.

  • Fairview Heights
  • Il
Tom Renner said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 4:06 PM

Mary and Family, Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. I remember her as always smiling and being so friendly. We saw her at Mass every week. God has another Angel. With Deepest Sympathy, Tom Renner

  • Belleville
  • Illinois
Sr Angela Laquet, ASC said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 3:48 PM

I have wonderful memories of Jeanette from Cathedral and the Perpetual Help Sodality. I’m sure my mom and Jeanette are catching up with one another in heaven!

  • Waterloo
  • IL
Cindy Simmons said : Guest Report Sep 08, 2023 at 3:40 PM

We are so sorry! It’s so hard….we know.

  • Springfield
  • Illinois

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