Mary Sciarra

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Beloved wife, sister, mother, grandmother and educator, Mary H. Sciarra, nee Risinger, 70, of Swansea, IL, born May 4, 1950, in Louisville, KY, died Thursday, Jan. 14, 2021, at Evelyn’s House, Creve Coeur, MO.

Mary spent more than four decades in education. She especially enjoyed preparing students for their First Reconciliation and First Communion sacraments. She was a member of St. Teresa Roman Catholic Church, where she volunteered as a lector and belonged to the Perpetual Help Society. Always one to give a hug and share the biggest smile, Mary had an immeasurable impact on the education of hundreds of students, sometimes even among multiple generations of families.

In 2020, Mary retired after 28 years of being an educator at St. Teresa Catholic School in Belleville. Previously, she taught in San Antonio, TX, the Netherlands, and Kentucky. Mary received her undergraduate degree from the University of Kentucky in 1972 and a master’s degree from the University of Louisville in 1978.

Mary loved spending time with her son, daughter-in-law, and grandchildren, as well as exploring the New York City area, where her daughter most recently lived. A sports fan, she enjoyed University of Kentucky Wildcats basketball and attending St. Louis Cardinals baseball games with friends and family. Mary enjoyed the simplicity of an afternoon finding a good book to read as well as the fun of an evening playing bunco with friends.

Mary was preceded in death by her father, Lamar Risinger; her mother, Elizabeth, nee Stansbury, Risinger; a sister, Nora Risinger; and a sister-in-law, Meg Sciarra.

Surviving are her husband of 44 years, Ronald Sciarra, whom she married on Aug. 14, 1976; a son, Joseph (Jennifer) Sciarra, and their children, Claire, Brooke, and Levi; a daughter, Rhonda Sciarra; three sisters, Dorothy Hayes, Cheryl (Ed) Bergstrom, and Delores (Tim) Davis; a brother, Richard Risinger; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Ed (Judy) Sciarra, Larry (Carolyn) Sciarra, Rita (David) Neat, Mike Sciarra, and Angela (Tommy) Kelley; and many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Cardinals Care, the St. Louis Cardinals community foundation dedicated to improving the lives of children. Condolences may be expressed to the family online at www.rennerfh.com.

Visitation: With COVID-19 restrictions in place, a drive-by visitation will be held from 1 to 3 p.m. Thursday, Jan. 21, 2021, at St. Teresa Roman Catholic Church, Belleville, IL.

 Funeral:  A private memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held.

 Celebrations of life will be held at later dates, both in the Belleville area and in Louisville, Ky.

 

 

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26 Comments on Mary Sciarra

Alison Coates said : Guest Report Jan 22, 2021 at 7:03 AM

Mrs. Sciarra was my daughter’s teacher. Her love of her students was obvious. She will be missed by many. We will always remember the special way she touched Alexa. To the Sciarra family — I’m so sorry for your loss. With love, The Coates Family

  • Swansea
  • IL
Kimberly Zimmer said : Guest Report Jan 21, 2021 at 10:10 AM

Mary taught all three of my kids to read and countless others as well. That might seem like something so basic for a second grade teacher, but it is the gateway to all knowledge. What an amazing life’s work! Thank you for sharing her with us.

  • Belleville
  • Il
Albert Crawford said : Guest Report Jan 20, 2021 at 6:34 PM

Ron and Family; Your family is so rich in friends word can not express how much she will be missed. My sons all had Mary and had so much fun being in her classes.

  • SWANSEA
  • IL
Shelly Dowling said : Guest Report Jan 20, 2021 at 5:22 PM

It will be difficult not to see Mary's smiling face in person any longer. She will always be remembered by our family for her kindness, encouragement, and happy demeanor, not only as a teacher, but as a co-worker and friend. She was truly an angel on Earth. Our sympathies ~ Jay, Shelly, Mason & Nolan Dowling

  • Swansea
  • IL
Vogt said : Guest Report Jan 20, 2021 at 12:39 PM

Ronald ,Joseph .Rhonda I was so sorry to see that your wife and mother passed away. Mary was a great lady and was a person once you knew her a friend for life, once again please accept my deepest sympathies and prayers for all of you. Robert J. Vogt Sr, B.J. and Christopher .

  • Belleville
  • IL
Stacey Anderson said : Guest Report Jan 20, 2021 at 6:50 AM

My deepest condolences. Praying for your family at this time.

  • Columbia
  • Illinois
Jane Spreng said : Guest Report Jan 18, 2021 at 10:25 PM

When I heard Mary had passed away I felt it wouldn't be the same going to parish events and not seeing and talking with her. We were both teachers and both lectors (and were reliable substitutes, when needed, for lectoring.) My prayers are with you. I am sure she will be caring for her family.

  • Belleville
  • IL
Merry Maguire said : Guest Report Jan 18, 2021 at 8:58 PM

Mary was not only my first teaching partner at St. Teresa School, but she was my very first friend when we moved to Belleville. Her smile, generosity, and caring will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Ron, Rhonda, Joe, and the rest of her family.

  • Belleville
  • IL
Denise Douglas said : Guest Report Jan 18, 2021 at 11:11 AM

Rhonda,I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. No matter how old you are, it is so difficult to lose a parent. Though I only met your mother a couple of times, it was apparent how much she loved and cared about you. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Swansea
  • Il
Connie Barre said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 8:13 PM

I had the privilege of meeting Mary many years ago while working on a math grant. She was a super star teacher who loved working with our early learners. I was inspired by her enthusiasm and genuine gift of caring about sharing her passion for learning. And then I would see Mary at church, sharing the word of God as a lector. And again at the church picnic, sharing that smile and her gift of being a minister of hospitality. I am so sad to hear that Mary will no longer be with us-but she has touched so many-till we meet again-RIP! Connie Barre

  • Belleville
  • Il
The Duncans said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 7:18 PM

Mrs. Sciarra was hands down the best “hugger” around. She will forever be remembered as having a perpetual smile on her face, a twinkle in her eye, kind words upon her lips, and joy spilling from her heart. She was an extraordinary role model, mentor, educator, and friend. A true angel on earth who now has her heavenly wings. ~John and Barbie Duncan Mel Lombardo-Class of 2005 Josh Duncan-Class of 2008

  • Shiloh
  • Ilinois
Martha Cresswell said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 4:56 PM

I am so sorry for your loss I can not make it but I will pray for all of you love you.

  • Louisville
  • Ky
Marilyn Neu said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 12:59 PM

I met Mary when she came into the Office of Education for the Diocese of Belleville looking for a job. Over the years that she worked in our schools we had many wonderful conversations. Her many students were lucky to have had such a dedicated teacher. She will be remembered by all the lives she touched.

  • Belleville
  • IL
Alex and Matt Ubben said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 12:10 PM

Our hearts go out to the Sciarra family. So sorry for your loss.

  • Lenexa
  • KS
Diana clark said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 11:38 AM

There are no words that I can come up with to express are deep sorrow to you Braun and your family. She was an amazing woman and always made us smile. And we were blessed to have her take care of our children and grandchildren. Heaven has gained another angel. Although I honestly believe that she was one of God‘s angels here on earth. Sending prayers and spiritual hugs.. sincerely The Diana Clark Family

  • Freeburg
  • Il
John. Lauf said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 9:53 AM

Sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in family , friends and good memories. John and Jackie

  • Belleville
  • IL
Nancy Zahner said : Guest Report Jan 17, 2021 at 7:16 AM

Ron, so sorry to hear about Mary's passing. Please accept my sympathy.

  • Belleville
  • IL
Jim&Donna keefe said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 8:11 PM

We are so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. She was a wonderful teacher to our 5 children . Shared many good times with Mary at St Teresa. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Ron and the kids. Never easy to go through but hopefully all the good times will help you get through this difficult time.

  • Belleville
  • Il
Art & Sharon Fahrner said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 6:49 PM

Mary was such a wonderful role model with her gentle, kind & faith- filled ways. She touched many lives. My life has been blessed by knowing her. I will miss you, my dear friend but I know you are at peace. I send my condolences to her family & will continue to keep them in my prayers.

  • Swansea
  • IL
Liz Vandewalle Rivera said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 6:47 PM

Rhonda, my heartfelt condolences. Reading about your mother makes me understand you all the more...the apple didn't fall far from the tree. What a neat lady she sounded like. I now know where you gleaned your adventurous-spirit, hard-working drive, and enjoyment in a wide assortment of activities. It definitely sounds like she will be deeply missed. May our Creator comfort your family in this time, dear friend.

  • Lake Worth
  • Florida
Gerry Hobbs said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 6:19 PM

I will miss my sweet smiley friend. Even though we didn't see each other often it was like we just saw each other recently.

  • Waterloo
  • IL
Christy Sciarra said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 12:38 PM

I don't know what to say except how much I love you and appreciate the love you showed Shelby and myself almost 25 years ago.

  • Louisville
  • Ky
Cathy A Hebden said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 12:20 PM

May the Lord bless you all in this time of sorrow.

  • O Fallon
  • IL
Gabriella Luisa Alberico said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 10:44 AM

We are very sad for your loss.. Even if we are phisically distant we will miss Mary very much.

  • Castellammare di Stabia
  • Italy
Maribeth Nelson said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 10:27 AM

Mary was one of the most dedicated, hardworking, and faith filled person I've had the privilege to work with. I always admired her work ethic and strength in faith. God bless her, rest in peace. I will miss her and am praying for her and the family she held so dear.

  • Swansea
  • IL
Jim and Rosemary Heinen said : Guest Report Jan 16, 2021 at 10:06 AM

Will miss my friend so much. So sorry that she is gone

  • Belleville
  • IL

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