Melissa was preceded in death by her sister, Heather Deterding; paternal grandparents, Walter (Golda) Grau; maternal grandparents, Robert (Audrey) Adams; and her step-grandfather, Mick Weber.
Surviving are one son, Blake Dahm;
twin daughters, Jaelynn and Shaelynn Neff;
her mother, Cindy (Milton) Weber, nee Adams of Freeburg, IL;
her father, Jack Grau of Lenzburg, IL;
two sisters, Kimberly Wachtel of Belleville, IL;
and Erica (Brad) Haas of Mascoutah, IL;
three brothers, Ian Weber,
and Dereck Weber, all of Freeburg, IL;
her step-grandmother, Betty Weber of Freeburg, IL;
aunts and uncles;
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the family. Condolences may be expressed to the family online at www.rennerfh.com.
Visitation: Friends may call from 3 to 8 p.m. Friday, October 2, 2015, at George Renner and Sons Funeral Home, Freeburg, IL.
Funeral: Funeral services will be at 8 p.m. Friday, October 2, 2015, at George Renner and Sons Funeral Home, Freeburg, IL, with Fr. Mark Reyling officiating. Cremation will follow.
Condolences Left For Melissa Proctor
I am so sorry for your loss. Missy was very dear to me. I will always remember her. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Marilyn Buehlhorn , Belleville, Illinois, 62221
Sorry for your loss.
Troy Papproth, belleville, il, 62223
I don’t want to believe it’s true! Heartbreaking and tragic. Prayers to you Cindy, Shae, Jae, & Blake… the world lost a beautiful soul fly high missy god speed!
Jessica Smith, wichita, KS, 67217