Melissa Proctor

Melissa Proctor
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Melissa Sue Proctor, nee Grau, 35, Freeburg, IL, born January 11, 1980, in Belleville, IL, died Wednesday, September 30, 2015, at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital, Belleville, IL.

Melissa was preceded in death by her sister, Heather Deterding; paternal grandparents, Walter (Golda) Grau; maternal grandparents, Robert (Audrey) Adams; and her step-grandfather, Mick Weber.

Surviving are one son, Blake Dahm;
twin daughters, Jaelynn and Shaelynn Neff;
her mother, Cindy (Milton) Weber, nee Adams of Freeburg, IL;
her father, Jack Grau of Lenzburg, IL;
two sisters, Kimberly Wachtel of Belleville, IL;
and Erica (Brad) Haas of Mascoutah, IL;
three brothers, Ian Weber,
Brandon Weber,
and Dereck Weber, all of Freeburg, IL;
her step-grandmother, Betty Weber of Freeburg, IL;
aunts and uncles;
and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the family.  Condolences may be expressed to the family online at

Visitation:  Friends may call from 3 to 8 p.m. Friday, October 2, 2015, at George Renner and Sons Funeral Home, Freeburg, IL.

Funeral:  Funeral services will be at 8 p.m. Friday, October 2, 2015, at George Renner and Sons Funeral Home, Freeburg, IL, with Fr. Mark Reyling officiating. Cremation will follow.

Condolences Left For Melissa Proctor

I am so sorry for your loss. Missy was very dear to me. I will always remember her. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

Marilyn Buehlhorn , Belleville, Illinois, 62221

Sorry for your loss.

Troy Papproth, belleville, il, 62223

I don’t want to believe it’s true! Heartbreaking and tragic. Prayers to you Cindy, Shae, Jae, & Blake… the world lost a beautiful soul fly high missy god speed!

Jessica Smith, wichita, KS, 67217


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