Rose Skaer

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Rose Marie Skaer, nee Lanter, 93, of Freeburg, IL, passed away Friday, Dec. 31, 2021, at Evelyn’s House hospice facility in St. Louis, MO. She was born Aug. 28, 1928, in Freeburg.

Rose enjoyed life with her best friend by her side, her husband Oscar. They met more than 75 years ago at Freeburg Community High School. The two celebrated their 72nd and final wedding anniversary together on May 1, 2020.

Home was where Rose was most happy and could almost always be found. It was where she demonstrated much love and devotion as a mother of eight children. Indeed, 40 years passed from the birth of her first child to the day the eighth child flew out of the nest. Almost all of that time was spent at 212 N. State St., home for more than 60 years.

Love was Rose’s true treasure in life. Whenever a family member asked what she wanted for a birthday or Christmas gift, Rose would always reply, “Don’t buy me anything! Just give me a hug and tell me you love me.”

Rose worked part-time at Skaer TV — answering phone calls, helping customers drop off or pick up TVs, and doing accounting work. She was a lifetime member of St. Joseph Catholic Church in Freeburg, where she worked on the Altar Sodality and the PTF organization.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Oscar G. Skaer, who passed away on May 15, 2020; her parents, Ferd and Mary Lanter, nee Dambacher; her brother and sister-in-law, Robert and Pat Lanter; her sisters and brothers-in-law, Alberta and Joseph Kostelac, and Mary Kay and Torrence Ashton; her nieces, Marilyn Skaer Pittman and Kathryn Weiss; and her nephew, Thomas Kostelac.

Surviving are her eight children, Michael (Jan) Skaer of Pasadena, TX, Jill (Vladimir) Halupa of Belleville, IL, Mark Skaer of Trenton, IL, Charles Skaer of St. Louis, MO, Jane Skaer (Scott Laurent) of Kansas City, MO, Mary (Joe) McGraw of New Athens, IL, Laura Skaer of Belleville, IL, and Christopher (Judy) Skaer of Roswell, GA; her six nephews and seven nieces; and her 14 grandchildren; and her 13 great grandchildren.

Memorials may be made to the St. Joseph Catholic School Endowment Fund. Condolences to the family may be expressed online at www.rennerfh.com.

Funeral: Due to COVID-19 restrictions, all services are private. Burial will be at St. Joseph’s Catholic Cemetery, Freeburg. A date for a memorial service will be announced after all health restrictions are lifted.

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21 Comments on Rose Skaer

Mary Anne Downen said : Guest Report Jan 11, 2022 at 12:22 PM

Mary. So sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. Thinking of you and all your famy

  • Freeburg
  • Illinois
Mary Anne Downen said : Guest Report Jan 11, 2022 at 12:22 PM

Mary. So sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. Thinking of you and all your famy

  • Freeburg
  • Illinois
Joni & Scott jones said : Guest Report Jan 08, 2022 at 8:05 PM

Mary and family We are so sorry to hear about your loss. She was such a lovely person and always so kind to us. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

  • Belleville
  • Illinois
Len and Ann Mehmert said : Guest Report Jan 08, 2022 at 3:27 PM

We are so sorry to hear about Rose but oh the joy when she met your dad again, what a beautiful blessing. Our deepest sympathy to the family.

  • Belleville
  • Il
Rebecca Andy and Matt Lisle said : Guest Report Jan 06, 2022 at 7:44 PM

Rose was a beautiful special lady. So sorry for your loss. Prayers and Hugs.

  • Houston
  • Texas
Rebecca Andy and Matt Lisle said : Guest Report Jan 06, 2022 at 7:00 PM

Rose was a wonderful, sweet lady. So sorry for the loss. Prayers and Hugs.

  • Houston
  • Texas
The Koesterer Family said : Guest Report Jan 05, 2022 at 10:20 PM

Our family was so sorry to hear of Rose’s passing. Our parents, Rita and Clarence enjoyed their time with Rose and her wonderful family while she was at Cedarhurst. It made the transition there so much easier. The kindness you showed our mother was very important to us all and we are so very grateful. Rose was obviously loved very much by her family and will be missed. We are sorry for your loss and will keep you all in our prayers.

  • Shiloh
  • Illinois
Mary Havel said : Guest Report Jan 05, 2022 at 6:21 PM

We send our deepest sympathy to Rose's family. She and Oscar are together again. Tom & Mary Havel Red Bud, IL

  • Red Bud
  • Illinois
Janice &David Bassler said : Guest Report Jan 05, 2022 at 12:00 PM

We will remember Rose , Oscar and all their familly in our prayers.

  • Seansea
  • il
DOLORES Nehring said : Guest Report Jan 05, 2022 at 10:14 AM

I miss your Mom when she move away. Rose was a truly a good friend and neighbor I new Rose and Oscar since I was a little girl. Good People!🙏

  • Freeburg,
  • IL.
Amy C unfried said : Guest Report Jan 05, 2022 at 12:02 AM

prayers go out to laura and her family

  • Carbondale, IL
  • IL
Margaret schwaegel said : Guest Report Jan 04, 2022 at 4:16 PM

To all family -- Rose was such a delightful person in every way. Not enough words to say how much she was loved for all she did for her family, friends, and anyone else she could help with a smile. I have many memories of our get together with laugher and fun.. She will never be forgotten.

  • Freeburg
  • Ill
Joyce and John Dittmann said : Guest Report Jan 04, 2022 at 11:34 AM

Family of Rose, We send our sympathy on the loss of a great and wonderful mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, as well as a friend to anyone who knew her.

  • Freeburg
  • Ill
Gloria Niebruegge said : Guest Report Jan 04, 2022 at 6:33 AM

Jill, I am sorry for the loss of your mom. Your parents were wonderful people but now they are back together again. Prayers for your family..

  • Freeburg
  • Illinois
Joe and Kathy Rubin said : Guest Report Jan 04, 2022 at 4:45 AM

We extend our sincere and heartfelt condolences to all of Rose’s family at this difficult time, and especially to our great friends Chaz and Mark. We see the grace and compassion with which you both live, clearly the gift of your Mom and Dad. . So we raise our glasses to you Rose, and to you Oscar! And to all the Skaers!

  • Lake Ozark
  • MO
Justice and Terry Rhoades said : Guest Report Jan 04, 2022 at 1:43 AM

Jane - our condolences to you and your family. I (JR) had the privilege meeting Rose a few times and it was clear where all your love sprang from. She was a gentle, kind and loving woman. Her warmth filled whatever space she was n. Our prayers are with you all.

  • New Glarus
  • Wisconsin
Rosanne Hettenhausen said : Guest Report Jan 03, 2022 at 9:37 AM

Sending our sincere sympathy to the Skaer family. She was a pillar of our community, and they don’t make them like her anymore. May your memories bring you all great comfort. Dan & Rosanne Hettenhausen

  • Freeburg
  • Il
Lesley said : Guest Report Jan 03, 2022 at 8:11 AM

Laura, I was so surprised to see this, this morning. You are all in my prayers. Know that our Lord is taking good care of your mom and that she and Oscar and sitting on a swing somewhere enjoying each other.

  • Fairview Heights
  • Il
Anne said : Guest Report Jan 03, 2022 at 7:07 AM

What a beautiful woman she was! She lived a simple, loving life that can truly be admired. Her passing will surely leave a hole but the memories are many. You are all in my prayers.❤️

  • St Louis
  • MO
Candy and John Heidbreder said : Guest Report Jan 02, 2022 at 7:17 PM

Our prayers are with you and your family. What a wonderful example you set for your children-72 years of marriage!!!

  • Weldon spring
  • Mo
Joseph and KathyFeurer said : Guest Report Jan 02, 2022 at 5:59 PM

Jill - sorry to hear of your mothers passing. My prayers are with your family.

  • Millstadt
  • Illinois

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